THE IMPORTANCE OF SILENCE
Think of someone who is powerful. That you fight and scream like a chicken or looks and silences, like a wolf? Wolves Do not Cry. They have the aura of strength and power. Quietly observe.
Only the powerful, are wolves, men or women, respond to a verbal attack with silence.
Besides, who avoids saying anything they want, rarely regret for hurting someone with harsh words and thoughtless.
Precisely for this reason, the first and most obvious sign of power over oneself is the silence at critical moments.
If you are in silence, looking at the problem, shows its thinking, no time for futile debates.
If a thread that has left the realm of reason, who has won shows that silent, even when the other side insists on yelling his defeat.
Look ... Smile ... Silence ... Go ahead.
Remember that there are times to speak and there are moments of silence.
Choose which of those times is right, even if they have to work for it.
For some reason, probably cultural, we are trained for the (false) idea that we are obliged to answer all the questions and respond to all attacks. Not true!
You answer only to want to respond and react only when they want to react.
You is not even obliged to meet their personal phone.
Talk is a choice, not a requirement, more so than it seems. You can choose silence.
In addition, you will not have to repent for things said in thoughtless moments, as he defended a Greek thinker, over 300 years before Christ, saying: "I regret what you said, but never my silence."
Respond with silence when necessary.
Use smiles, no smiles sarcastic, but real.
Use the look, use a hug or use something else to not respond at times
you'll find that silence can be the most powerful responses.
And at the right time, the most comprehensive and real one.